Relationship Breakups: When Love Ends but the Pain Lingers
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An honest, first-person article on relationship breakups, unrequited love, divorce, and healing, offering practical guidance on what to do and what not to do when your heart is broken.

True wellness isn’t about perfecting one area of your health while neglecting others. It’s about recognizing that mental clarity, physical vitality, and nutritional choices are deeply intertwined, each one influencing the others in ways that can either elevate or undermine your overall well-being.

Trauma can change a person’s world in an instant. Whether it stems from domestic violence, childhood abuse, loss, betrayal, or a sudden life-altering event, trauma leaves emotional imprints that can last a lifetime. It doesn’t simply fade away with time, instead, it lingers in the subconscious, replaying through intrusive memories, flashbacks, or emotional triggers that can feel impossible to escape.

Trichotillomania, also known as Hair-Pulling Disorder, is a serious mental health condition classified under Obsessive-Compulsive and Related Disorders in the DSM-5. It involves repetitive hair-pulling that leads to noticeable hair loss, emotional distress, and social or occupational impairment.

Antidepressant use has soared over the past two decades, with the UK alone seeing a doubling in prescriptions since 2008. While medication can be life-changing for some, concerns are growing around its overprescription, especially for patients who may not need long-term pharmacological treatment. From the reluctance of GPs to offer fast-acting relief to the alarming trend of children being medicated, it’s time to ask, are we medicating emotion at the expense of wellbeing?

Though trauma may never fully disappear, it can transform into strength. By understanding its roots, recognising how it impacts the mind and body, and gently working toward recovery, survivors can reclaim their lives. The editor is a testament to this. Through her pain, she has cultivated purpose, using her lived experience to educate, support, and inspire others who feel lost in the shadows of trauma and mental illness. Her message is clear: you are not alone.

If you are carrying the weight of trauma, grief, or fear, know that your pain does not have to define you, it can guide you. Finding a purpose, especially through helping others who are facing their own struggles, can bring unexpected healing. Whether it’s through sharing your story, offering a listening ear, or simply showing kindness, your experience has the power to become someone else’s lifeline. In lifting others, you may begin to lift yourself, and in easing their pain, you may gently quiet your own. 💛

Even if others say “It was so long ago” — your pain is still real. Your nervous system may have held onto that trauma as a silent passenger all these years. But healing is not a deadline — it’s a journey.

Intrusive thoughts are not always reflections of reality — they are often a distorted mirror shaped by trauma, fear, or self-doubt. While they may not vanish overnight, there are tools to weaken their grip. For Elena, simply validating her emotions, taking structured study breaks, and shifting her attention to writing articles about justice helped her reclaim peace.
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Music transcends the boundaries of language, illness, and time. Whether soothing the mind, lifting the spirit, or reaching into the depths of memory, music has an undeniable capacity to heal. For those with dementia, music can be a powerful tool to unlock lost memories and reignite moments of joy. For individuals struggling with mental health disorders, it can offer stability, expression, and connection. Where words sometimes fail, music speaks. It reminds us of who we are, where we’ve been, and the people we’ve loved. It bridges the gap between past and present, illness and identity, silence and voice. In every beat and every lyric lies the potential for comfort, healing, and hope.